"Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?" Jesus replied: "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' This is the first and greatest commandment.  And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'  All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments."  Matthew 22:36-40

Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind by:

• Spending regular time alone with God in personal prayer and Bible study.

  Joshua 1:7-8"Only be strong and very courageous; be careful to do according to all the law which Moses My servant commanded you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, so that you may have success wherever you go.
  
  "This book of the law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it; for then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have success. Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?" | Psalm 1:2"But his delight is in the law of the LORD, And in His law he meditates day and night." | Matt 14:23 "After He had sent the crowds away, He went up on the mountain by Himself to pray; and when it was evening, He was there alone." | Matt 15:29"Departing from there, Jesus went along by the Sea of Galilee, and having gone up on the mountain, He was sitting there." | Mark 1:35"In the early morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house, and went away to a secluded place, and was praying there." | Luke 5:16"But Jesus Himself would often slip away to the wilderness and pray."
  Luke 6:12"It was at this time that He went off to the mountain to pray, and He spent the whole night in prayer to God." | Acts 2:42"They were continually devoting themselves to the apostles' teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer." | Acts 6:2"But we will devote ourselves to prayer and to the ministry of the word." | Phil 4:6"Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God." | 1 John 2:24"As for you, let that abide in you which you heard from the beginning If what you heard from the beginning abides in you, you also will abide in the Son and in the Father."

• Faithfully attending weekly worship.

  Acts 2:1-46"When the day of Pentecost had come, they were all together in one place.
  
  And suddenly there came from heaven a noise like a violent rushing wind, and it filled the whole house where they were sitting.
  
  And there appeared to them tongues as of fire distributing themselves, and they rested on each one of them.
  
  And they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak with other tongues, as the Spirit was giving them utterance.
  
  Now there were Jews living in Jerusalem, devout men from every nation under heaven.
  
  And when this sound occurred, the crowd came together, and were bewildered because each one of them was hearing them speak in his own language..." | Acts 14:27-28"When they had arrived and gathered the church together, they began to report all things that God had done with them and how He had opened a door of faith to the Gentiles.
  
  And they spent a long time with the disciples." | Heb 10:24-25"and let us consider how to stimulate one another to love and good deeds,
  
  not forsaking our own assembling together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another; and all the more as you see the day drawing near." | Rev 4 & 5"After these things I looked, and behold, a door standing open in heaven, and the first voice which I had heard, like the sound of a trumpet speaking with me, said, "Come up here, and I will show you what must take place after these things."
  
  Immediately I was in the Spirit; and behold, a throne was standing in heaven, and One sitting on the throne.
  
  And He who was sitting was like a jasper stone and a sardius in appearance; and there was a rainbow around the throne, like an emerald in appearance.
  
  Around the throne were twenty-four thrones; and upon the thrones I saw twenty-four elders sitting, clothed in white garments, and golden crowns on their heads..."

• Faithfully attending weekly Bible study.

  Isaiah 55:8-11"For My thoughts are not your thoughts, Nor are your ways My ways," declares the LORD.
  
  "For as the heavens are higher than the earth, So are My ways higher than your ways And My thoughts than your thoughts.
  
  "For as the rain and the snow come down from heaven, And do not return there without watering the earth And making it bear and sprout, And furnishing seed to the sower and bread to the eater;
  
  So will My word be which goes forth from My mouth; It will not return to Me empty, Without accomplishing what I desire, And without succeeding in the matter for which I sent it." | Acts 2:1"When the day of Pentecost had come, they were all together in one place." | Acts 2:42-46"They were continually devoting themselves to the apostles' teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer.
  
  Everyone kept feeling a sense of awe; and many wonders and signs were taking place through the apostles.
  
  And all those who had believed were together and had all things in common;
  
  and they began selling their property and possessions and were sharing them with all, as anyone might have need.
  
  Day by day continuing with one mind in the temple, and breaking bread from house to house, they were taking their meals together with gladness and sincerity of heart," | Acts 14:27-28"When they had arrived and gathered the church together, they began to report all things that God had done with them and how He had opened a door of faith to the Gentiles.
  
  And they spent a long time with the disciples." | 2 Tim 3:16-17"All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness;
  
  so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work."
  Heb 10:24-25"and let us consider how to stimulate one another to love and good deeds,
  
  not forsaking our own assembling together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another; and all the more as you see the day drawing near."2 Pet 1:20-21"But know this first of all, that no prophecy of Scripture is a matter of one's own interpretation,
  
  for no prophecy was ever made by an act of human will, but men moved by the Holy Spirit spoke from God."

• Committing to obey God's Word in Scripture through the conviction and interpretation of the Holy Spirit.

  Psalm 1"How blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked, Nor stand in the path of sinners, Nor sit in the seat of scoffers!
  
  But his delight is in the law of the LORD, And in His law he meditates day and night.
  
  He will be like a tree firmly planted by streams of water, Which yields its fruit in its season And its leaf does not wither; And in whatever he does, he prospers.
  
  The wicked are not so, But they are like chaff which the wind drives away.
  
  Therefore the wicked will not stand in the judgment, Nor sinners in the assembly of the righteous.
  
  For the LORD knows the way of the righteous, But the way of the wicked will perish." | Psalm 19"The heavens are telling of the glory of God; And their expanse is declaring the work of His hands.
  
  Day to day pours forth speech, And night to night reveals knowledge.
  
  There is no speech, nor are there words; Their voice is not heard.
  
  Their line has gone out through all the earth, And their utterances to the end of the world In them He has placed a tent for the sun,
  
  Which is as a bridegroom coming out of his chamber; It rejoices as a strong man to run his course.
  
  Its rising is from one end of the heavens, And its circuit to the other end of them; And there is nothing hidden from its heat.
  
  The law of the LORD is perfect, restoring the soul; The testimony of the LORD is sure, making wise the simple.
  
  The precepts of the LORD are right, rejoicing the heart; The commandment of the LORD is pure, enlightening the eyes.
  
  The fear of the LORD is clean, enduring forever; The judgments of the LORD are true; they are righteous altogether.
  
  They are more desirable than gold, yes, than much fine gold; Sweeter also than honey and the drippings of the honeycomb.
  
  Moreover, by them Your servant is warned; In keeping them there is great reward.
  
  Who can discern his errors? Acquit me of hidden faults.
  
  Also keep back Your servant from presumptuous sins; Let them not rule over me; Then I will be blameless, And I shall be acquitted of great transgression.
  
  Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart Be acceptable in Your sight, O LORD, my rock and my Redeemer.When the day of Pentecost had come, they were all together in one place." | Psalm 119"How blessed are those whose way is blameless, Who walk in the law of the LORD.
  
  How blessed are those who observe His testimonies, Who seek Him with all their heart.
  
  They also do no unrighteousness; They walk in His ways.
  
  You have ordained Your precepts, That we should keep them diligently.
  
  Oh that my ways may be established To keep Your statutes!
  
  Then I shall not be ashamed When I look upon all Your commandments.
  
  I shall give thanks to You with uprightness of heart, When I learn Your righteous judgments.
  
  I shall keep Your statutes; Do not forsake me utterly!...  | Matt 7:24"Therefore everyone who hears these words of Mine and acts on them, may be compared to a wise man who built his house on the rock." | Matt 28:20a"teaching them to observe all that I commanded you;"
  John 8:31-32"So Jesus was saying to those Jews who had believed Him, "If you continue in My word, then you are truly disciples of Mine;
  
  and you will know the truth, and the truth will make you free." | John 14:21-27"He who has My commandments and keeps them is the one who loves Me; and he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will disclose Myself to him."
  
  Judas (not Iscariot) said to Him, "Lord, what then has happened that You are going to disclose Yourself to us and not to the world?"
  
  Jesus answered and said to him, "If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our abode with him.
  
  "He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine, but the Father's who sent Me.
  
  "These things I have spoken to you while abiding with you.
  
  "But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all that I said to you.
  
  "Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you Do not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful." |  1 Cor 2:12-14"Now we have received, not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, so that we may know the things freely given to us by God,
  
  which things we also speak, not in words taught by human wisdom, but in those taught by the Spirit, combining spiritual thoughts with spiritual words.
  
  But a natural man does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him; and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually appraised." | Heb 4:12"For the word of God is living and active and sharper than any two-edged sword, and piercing as far as the division of soul and spirit, of both joints and marrow, and able to judge the thoughts and intentions of the heart." | James 1:22-25"But prove yourselves doers of the word, and not merely hearers who delude themselves.
  
  For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks at his natural face in a mirror;
  
  for once he has looked at himself and gone away, he has immediately forgotten what kind of person he was.
  
  But one who looks intently at the perfect law, the law of liberty, and abides by it, not having become a forgetful hearer but an effectual doer, this man will be blessed in what he does."
  James 2:17"Even so faith, if it has no works, is dead, being by itself." | 1 Pet 1:14-16"As obedient children, do not be conformed to the former lusts which were yours in your ignorance,
  
  but like the Holy One who called you, be holy yourselves also in all your behavior;
  
  because it is written, "YOU SHALL BE HOLY, FOR I AM HOLY." | 1 John 2:20-27"But you have an anointing from the Holy One, and you all know.
  
  I have not written to you because you do not know the truth, but because you do know it, and because no lie is of the truth.
  
  Who is the liar but the one who denies that Jesus is the Christ? This is the antichrist, the one who denies the Father and the Son.
  
  Whoever denies the Son does not have the Father; the one who confesses the Son has the Father also.
  
  As for you, let that abide in you which you heard from the beginning If what you heard from the beginning abides in you, you also will abide in the Son and in the Father. The Promise Is Eternal Life
  
  This is the promise which He Himself made to us: eternal life.
  
  These things I have written to you concerning those who are trying to deceive you.
  
  As for you, the anointing which you received from Him abides in you, and you have no need for anyone to teach you; but as His anointing teaches you about all things, and is true and is not a lie, and just as it has taught you, you abide in Him."

• Loving God and not money. Being a tither as the basic minimum in faithful giving.

  Gen 14:8-20"And the king of Sodom and the king of Gomorrah and the king of Admah and the king of Zeboiim and the king of Bela (that is, Zoar) came out; and they arrayed for battle against them in the valley of Siddim,
  
  against Chedorlaomer king of Elam and Tidal king of Goiim and Amraphel king of Shinar and Arioch king of Ellasar--four kings against five.
  
  Now the valley of Siddim was full of tar pits; and the kings of Sodom and Gomorrah fled, and they fell into them But those who survived fled to the hill country.
  
  Then they took all the goods of Sodom and Gomorrah and all their food supply, and departed.
  
  They also took Lot, Abram's nephew, and his possessions and departed, for he was living in Sodom.
  
  Then a fugitive came and told Abram the Hebrew Now he was living by the oaks of Mamre the Amorite, brother of Eshcol and brother of Aner, and these were allies with Abram.
  
  When Abram heard that his relative had been taken captive, he led out his trained men, born in his house, three hundred and eighteen, and went in pursuit as far as Dan.
  
  He divided his forces against them by night, he and his servants, and defeated them, and pursued them as far as Hobah, which is north of Damascus.
  
  He brought back all the goods, and also brought back his relative Lot with his possessions, and also the women, and the people. Only be strong and very courageous; be careful to do according to all the law which Moses My servant commanded you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, so that you may have success wherever you go.
  
  Then after his return from the defeat of Chedorlaomer and the kings who were with him, the king of Sodom went out to meet him at the valley of Shaveh (that is, the King's Valley).
  
  And Melchizedek king of Salem brought out bread and wine; now he was a priest of God Most High.
  
  He blessed him and said, "Blessed be Abram of God Most High, Possessor of heaven and earth;
  
  And blessed be God Most High, Who has delivered your enemies into your hand." He gave him a tenth of all." | Gen 28:22"This stone, which I have set up as a pillar, will be God's house, and of all that You give me I will surely give a tenth to You." | Malachi 3:8-11"Will a man rob God? Yet you are robbing Me! But you say, 'How have we robbed You?' In tithes and offerings.
  
  "You are cursed with a curse, for you are robbing Me, the whole nation of you!
  
  "Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, so that there may be food in My house, and test Me now in this," says the LORD of hosts, "if I will not open for you the windows of heaven and pour out for you a blessing until it overflows." | Matt 6:19-21"Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal.
  
  "But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal;
  
  for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." | Matt 6:24-34"No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to one and despise the other You cannot serve God and wealth. The Cure for Anxiety
  
  "For this reason I say to you, do not be worried about your life, as to what you will eat or what you will drink; nor for your body, as to what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing?
  
  "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?
  
  "And who of you by being worried can add a single hour to his life?
  
  "And why are you worried about clothing? Observe how the lilies of the field grow; they do not toil nor do they spin,
  
  yet I say to you that not even Solomon in all his glory clothed himself like one of these.
  
  "But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which is alive today and tomorrow is thrown into the furnace, will He not much more clothe you? You of little faith!
  
  "Do not worry then, saying, 'What will we eat?' or 'What will we drink?' or 'What will we wear for clothing?'
  
  "For the Gentiles eagerly seek all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things.
  
  "But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
  
  "So do not worry about tomorrow; for tomorrow will care for itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."
  2 Cor 8:1-7"Now, brethren, we wish to make known to you the grace of God which has been given in the churches of Macedonia,
  
  that in a great ordeal of affliction their abundance of joy and their deep poverty overflowed in the wealth of their liberality.
  
  For I testify that according to their ability, and beyond their ability, they gave of their own accord,
  
  begging us with much urging for the favor of participation in the support of the saints,
  
  and this, not as we had expected, but they first gave themselves to the Lord and to us by the will of God.
  
  So we urged Titus that as he had previously made a beginning, so he would also complete in you this gracious work as well.
  
  But just as you abound in everything, in faith and utterance and knowledge and in all earnestness and in the love we inspired in you, see that you abound in this gracious work also." | 2 Cor 9:5-15"So I thought it necessary to urge the brethren that they would go on ahead to you and arrange beforehand your previously promised bountiful gift, so that the same would be ready as a bountiful gift and not affected by covetousness.
  
  Now this I say, he who sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and he who sows bountifully will also reap bountifully.
  
  Each one must do just as he has purposed in his heart, not grudgingly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.
  
  And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that always having all sufficiency in everything, you may have an abundance for every good deed;
  
  as it is written, "HE SCATTERED ABROAD, HE GAVE TO THE POOR, HIS RIGHTEOUSNESS ENDURES FOREVER."
  
  Now He who supplies seed to the sower and bread for food will supply and multiply your seed for sowing and increase the harvest of your righteousness;
  
  you will be enriched in everything for all liberality, which through us is producing thanksgiving to God.
  
  For the ministry of this service is not only fully supplying the needs of the saints, but is also overflowing through many thanksgivings to God.
  
  Because of the proof given by this ministry, they will glorify God for your obedience to your confession of the gospel of Christ and for the liberality of your contribution to them and to all,
  
  while they also, by prayer on your behalf, yearn for you because of the surpassing grace of God in you.
  
  Thanks be to God for His indescribable gift! | 1 Tim 6:10"or the love of money is a root of all sorts of evil, and some by longing for it have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs."

• Faithfully serving in ministry.

  Matt 20:26-28"It is not this way among you, but whoever wishes to become great among you shall be your servant,
  
  and whoever wishes to be first among you shall be your slave;
  
  just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many."" | John 13:1-5"Now before the Feast of the Passover, Jesus knowing that His hour had come that He would depart out of this world to the Father, having loved His own who were in the world, He loved them to the end.
  
  During supper, the devil having already put into the heart of Judas Iscariot, the son of Simon, to betray Him,
  
  Jesus, knowing that the Father had given all things into His hands, and that He had come forth from God and was going back to God,
  
  got up from supper, and laid aside His garments; and taking a towel, He girded Himself. Jesus Washes the Disciples' Feet
  
  Then He poured water into the basin, and began to wash the disciples' feet and to wipe them with the towel with which He was girded.When they had arrived and gathered the church together, they began to report all things that God had done with them and how He had opened a door of faith to the Gentiles." | Romans 12:4-8"For just as we have many members in one body and all the members do not have the same function,
  
  so we, who are many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another.
  
  Since we have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, each of us is to exercise them accordingly: if prophecy, according to the proportion of his faith;
  
  if service, in his serving; or he who teaches, in his teaching;
  
  or he who exhorts, in his exhortation; he who gives, with liberality; he who leads, with diligence; he who shows mercy, with cheerfulness. " | 1 Cor 12:1-31"Now concerning spiritual gifts, brethren, I do not want you to be unaware.
  
  You know that when you were pagans, you were led astray to the mute idols, however you were led.
  
  Therefore I make known to you that no one speaking by the Spirit of God says, "Jesus is accursed"; and no one can say, "Jesus is Lord," except by the Holy Spirit.
  
  Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit.
  
  And there are varieties of ministries, and the same Lord.
  
  There are varieties of effects, but the same God who works all things in all persons. "  | Eph 4:11-16"And He gave some as apostles, and some as prophets, and some as evangelists, and some as pastors and teachers,
  
  for the equipping of the saints for the work of service, to the building up of the body of Christ;
  
  until we all attain to the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a mature man, to the measure of the stature which belongs to the fullness of Christ.
  
  As a result, we are no longer to be children, tossed here and there by waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, by craftiness in deceitful scheming;
  
  but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ,
  
  from whom the whole body, being fitted and held together by what every joint supplies, according to the proper working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love."
  1 Peter 4:10"As each one has received a special gift, employ it in serving one another as good stewards of the manifold grace of God."

Love your neighbor as yourself by:

• Loving one another in the body of Christ.

  Matt 19:19"HONOR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER; and YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF." | John 13:34-35"A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another.
  
  "By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another." | John 15:12-14"This is My commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you.
  
  "Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends.
  
  "You are My friends if you do what I command you."
  John 15:17"This I command you, that you love one another."
  Romans 12:10"Be devoted to one another in brotherly love; give preference to one another in honor;" | 1 Cor. 13:1-13"If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
  
  If I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.
  
  And if I give all my possessions to feed the poor, and if I surrender my body to be burned, but do not have love, it profits me nothing.
  
  Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant,
  
  does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered,
  
  does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth;
  
  bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
  
  Love never fails; but if there are gifts of prophecy, they will be done away; if there are tongues, they will cease; if there is knowledge, it will be done away.
  
  For we know in part and we prophesy in part;
  
  but when the perfect comes, the partial will be done away.
  
  When I was a child, I used to speak like a child, think like a child, reason like a child; when I became a man, I did away with childish things.
  
  For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face; now I know in part, but then I will know fully just as I also have been fully known.
  
  But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the greatest of these is love."  | 1 John 3:11,23"For this is the message which you have heard from the beginning, that we should love one another;
  
  This is His commandment, that we believe in the name of His Son Jesus Christ, and love one another, just as He commanded us." | 1 John 4:20-21"If someone says, "I love God," and hates his brother, he is a liar; for the one who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen.
  
  And this commandment we have from Him, that the one who loves God should love his brother also."

• Being a positive and fruitful witness for Christ (inside and outside the home). Matt 5:14-16"You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden;
  
  nor does anyone light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on the lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house.
  
  "Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven." | Matt 28:16-20"But the eleven disciples proceeded to Galilee, to the mountain which Jesus had designated.
  
  When they saw Him, they worshiped Him; but some were doubtful.
  
  And Jesus came up and spoke to them, saying, "All authority has been given to Me in heaven and on earth.
  
  "Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit,
  
  teaching them to observe all that I commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age." | Acts 1:8"but you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you shall be My witnesses both in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and even to the remotest part of the earth." | Romans 10:9-15"that if you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved;
  
  for with the heart a person believes, resulting in righteousness, and with the mouth he confesses, resulting in salvation.
  
  For the Scripture says, "WHOEVER BELIEVES IN HIM WILL NOT BE DISAPPOINTED."
  
  For there is no distinction between Jew and Greek; for the same Lord is Lord of all, abounding in riches for all who call on Him;
  
  for "WHOEVER WILL CALL ON THE NAME OF THE LORD WILL BE SAVED."
  
  How then will they call on Him in whom they have not believed? How will they believe in Him whom they have not heard? And how will they hear without a preacher?
  
  How will they preach unless they are sent? Just as it is written, "HOW BEAUTIFUL ARE THE FEET OF THOSE WHO BRING GOOD NEWS OF GOOD THINGS!" | 1 Cor 7:10-17"But to the married I give instructions, not I, but the Lord, that the wife should not leave her husband
  
  (but if she does leave, she must remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband should not divorce his wife.
  
  But to the rest I say, not the Lord, that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he must not divorce her.
  
  And a woman who has an unbelieving husband, and he consents to live with her, she must not send her husband away.
  
  For the unbelieving husband is sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified through her believing husband; for otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are holy.
  
  Yet if the unbelieving one leaves, let him leave; the brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us to peace.
  
  For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?
  
  Only, as the Lord has assigned to each one, as God has called each, in this manner let him walk And so I direct in all the churches."
  1 Cor. 9:19-23"For though I am free from all men, I have made myself a slave to all, so that I may win more.
  
  To the Jews I became as a Jew, so that I might win Jews; to those who are under the Law, as under the Law though not being myself under the Law, so that I might win those who are under the Law;
  
  to those who are without law, as without law, though not being without the law of God but under the law of Christ, so that I might win those who are without law.
  
  To the weak I became weak, that I might win the weak; I have become all things to all men, so that I may by all means save some.
  
  I do all things for the sake of the gospel, so that I may become a fellow partaker of it." |  Eph 5:8-9"or you were formerly darkness, but now you are Light in the Lord; walk as children of Light
  
  (for the fruit of the Light consists in all goodness and righteousness and truth),", | Eph 5:22"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord." | Eph 6:4"Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord."